'Tell me is that what happens just for having a good intention....Why won't anybody answer my question
Why is the silence so loud?' -dappy.
Have been feeling down and moody for a few days, I swear I miss my boy alot, but some miscommunication happens. Yes. In relationship, miscommunication or misunderstandings happen. When you mean something good for the person, and all of the sudden, it's like a hurt for the person, I was just trying to be honest, sometimes, you got to know that being honest is not a good things, but at least it's better than lying. I'm the kind of person that I can't lie to someone I love, but if there's really a need, than I've got no choice but to lie.
It's like you didn't mean and wanted to hurt them, but somehow, something's will hurt them.
So, I found out that in order to keep a relationship from going is
1. Trust; without trust, your relationship is a goner.
2. Staying happy; yes, does your partner tell you that when you smile, he will be happy? Yes, try to stay happy at difficult time, be optimistic.
3. Time; why? Because you may start to get insecure and uneasy if you don't put in time to see each other or talk on the phone for a long time.
4. Keeping negative thoughts away; as you know, you start to get paranoid, jealous, and insecure, yes girls, I understand. But in order not to quarrel, you need to stay away from those negative thoughts, as it may hurt them.
5. Honesty; it's something like trust, but in order to get more trust, you got to be honest to each other. No lies in a relationship.
Okay, so is like that is important to keep a relationship going.
I have been lacking of all those, and I think I'm stressing him far too much. I can't keep myself happy, that's why I have all this happening, it's something that isn't healthy partly, and it somehow spoils the trust and the relationship between each other.
Guys always have a hard time telling you how they feel, why? Because the don't want to keep you worried, and trouble you. Yes, they care about you, but they also need to low that you also care for them as much as they care for you, because both of you are both different gender, that's why you tend to be unable to understand how the other party feel.. Yes, but that doesn't mean that you won't be in a wrong when you quarrel. Girls always have their freakish sixth instinct which is always accurate, but not very accurate at times, they tend to overthink. And I swear that when they have moodswings, is really a stab in your heart, because they tend to have uncontrollable temper, and they get irritated or sad at things easily, plus they get really tired, my main, or what I want to say is that you both have to trust each other, and understand each other thinking and personality, even though it may come off rough at times, but don't ever give up, if they don't give up on you, don't give up on them. Girls! Guys also feel insecure too, but they tend not to show it. So. Never do something to purposely hurt them.
